We let it go, take the lead Elsa!

We had been hanging on to Bells and Shy’s personal items for several months. We had bikes, scooters, skateboards, and heaps of clothing that belonged to them. The kids had packed things quite early on and put the boxes in the garage; I thought I had packed all of their boxes in their transport vehicle the day they had left. I had also anticipated a better relationship with their family but something changed…I’m not sure what. It’s common for family members to believe whatever random things the kids tell them, I guess I just assumed it wouldn’t happen to me. Well, it did. I was shafted by the adoptive family and children. 

Yeah, it hurts but it comes with territory. 

I did donate all of their items recently. Their things had taken up quite a bit off room in the garage, I had kept it hoping the family would request their personal belongings and I’d be able to see the kids. The kids left in October, it’s February…If they needed or wanted their items they would have come for them or  asked a caseworker to facilitate a retrieval. I was bummed out because most of Bells nice jeans and Uggs were packed in those boxes and Shy’s Legos were also in there, those were important to the kids. 

I was told that their family could contact me but I shouldn’t reach out to contact them. I have all of their contact information and I’ve been updated on their current case standings…but reaching out is forbidden has it has been since November of last year. 

Just as one chapter finally closes, a new chapter opens. I’m excited about life and my community. I’m learning lessons everyday and feeling good, sometimes rotten things happen but it doesn’t define the future. 💋

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The bid reveal was really exciting for our gym!

Our Level 5R team, Odyssey, had already recieved a bid at a prior competition but the team was honored to be awarded again! And our Level 1 team, Secret, was absolutely ecstatic. AND Biscuit’s Level 4 team, Matrix, was awarded a bid too! The kids are all extremely happy and proud of themselves; as they should be! This means 4 of our gyms 7 teams have bids to the Summit in Orlando! Well, 2 of the teams aren’t eligible…Tinys and Minis don’t compete at The Summit. We need just one more of our teams to snag a bid at the next few competitions. I have faith in the kids on all of our teams. C’mon Junior 2!!

Odyssey, Obsession, Matrix, Secret! 

Summit bound, I am extremely proud of these kids!

It still blows my mind, our gym is in a small town primarily know for partying or geriatric folks. Our gym has under 100 athletes on our all star cheer teams. We win at huge events, like Duel in the Desert, and recieved bids! I am truly thankful for our coaching staff at the gym, they’ve taught my daughters self confidence and amazing skills. 

Now we prepare for The Summit!

Wait. Maybe you’re still trying to figure out what the heck just happened, what is the Summit? What is a bid? How does it all work? I’ve snagged a few excerpts from Heart of Cheer to help my readers clear up any confusion. 

What is The Summit, what is a bid?

The Summit is an annual event, and it is held by Varsity All Star. It was first introduced in 2013, and is also held in late April at Walt Disney’s ESPN Wide World of Sports in Orlando, Florida. This competition includes Youth, Junior, and Senior teams of all levels 1 through 5.
…competitions require teams to earn bids. A bid is an invitation to compete, and must be earned through competing at an event that offers them. A team cannot compete at either competition without earning a bid.

What type of bids are there? 

A Paid bid to The Summit… Expenses are paid for the team to compete, and it is not necessary for teams who earn these bids to compete in the preliminary round. Only the highest scoring teams at the largest and most prestigious events are awarded paid bids to The Summit, and getting one of these is a high honor.

At large bids, again, offer the opportunity for teams to compete at The Summit, but without any expenses paid. At The Summit, however, teams who earn at large bids do not have to compete in the preliminary round.

Wild card bids… are awarded at select one day competitions to the highest scoring teams. Teams that earn wild card bids must compete in a preliminary round to earn a spot in semifinals. Only the top teams in each division will earn the chance to move on.

I bet you’re curious to know what the teams win at The Summit, it’s a ring. But what’s worth even more than the ring itself is the experience! 

Congratulations to all of The Summit bid winners, we will see you in Florida this May. ❤

Duel in the Desert 

The majority of the family, minus Blue because she wanted to see her family members over the weekend and Boychild because he loathes cheer competitions, went to Palm Springs over the weekend for a cheer competition. We all had a lot of fun. Prepare yourself for a l know of these photos! 

Jessa on Tiny Love, killing it with her jumps. 

Team Love. 

Bunny and her bestie. 

Biscuit getting zen.

Bunny and her bestie again.

Lex being a Smoed Fangirl. 

Lemon is a showstopper, naturally. 😂

My gorgeous Biscuit just before her J4 team started their routine.

Mini Dream and Tiny Love placed 2nd and were D2 champions. 

J4 Matrix placed first!

Lemon, Bunny, and Ren are silly!

J4 celebrating their victory. 

Biscuit and her friend, so cute!

Getting Bids to the Summit has changed this season, they no longer distribute them at the competition on awards day. They now have a team of people who review stuff and they post the day after the competition on the Varsity website. Although, last night at Duel the did award 3 Gold bids.

We had a great weekend with friends and family. 

I ended up missing my cousins wedding on Friday due to some travel restrictions and I am SO bummed out. We had planned on going to Phoenix to catch the wedding on Friday night then head straight to Palm Springs…but when placement happens and you’re struggling to get everything in order…you miss some things. I will continue to make sacrifices for children as long as I’m on this earth; I know where I’m needed and I’m certain my family understands the constant push and pull of foster care. 

And then there were 8.

At the beginning of this week we recieved a new placement, I’m going to call her Pretty. She is gorgeous and sweet, she is 17, and she will age out of foster care with us. A new adventure! A new road in foster care; we’ve never had a child age out in our home. In fact, Pretty is the oldest child we’ve had placed in our home. 

Pretty is into all girly things and can contour a face with precision. It’s really impressive, I could never do those things. Pretty was dealt a crappy hand if cards in life; she’s a great kid despite all of the obstacles she’s faced. Pretty is getting along well with the older girls in our home and the rest of the family. She seems to be good fit, a special shout out to my homie J.S. at the Bullhead City DES for always calling me with potential kids for our home that will work within our family dynamic. 

Lemon’s 4th birthday came and went last month, now I’ve got Boychild, Biscuit, and husbands birthdays this month. Boychild was disappointed that he couldn’t go to Glamis a couple of weeks ago and was at a cheer competition in Phoenix  instead. Husband is a rockstar dad that he is will be taking Boychild to Glamis in 2 weeks to celebrate his birthday; Boychild is very excited! This weekend we are headed to Palm Springs for a cheer competition, Trenton he will be hanging out with our dog and his best friend this weekend because he is not enthusiastic about the competitions at all. Give him a few years and he will be begging to tag along. 

Biscuit has had a serious attitude problem during the last 2 weeks. I don’t like it. Shes currently grounded for 2 weeks, she shows little remorse. 

Bunny is Bunny. She’s an overachiever and cries a lot, boy this kid is stubborn. 

Blue, shes still a little withdrawn. She’s funny, she cracks jokes and wrestles with Biscuit regularly. She’s a good girl and I love having here here, we’re still unsure where her case of going but shes just fine with us for now.

Husband has been working a lot and I appreciate him more than he could imagine. In short; things are amazing and we are all happy and healthy.